SQ told me she have two Mother Day cards to me. They already done in the class. But she will keep all cards secretly. She said would only give me on The Mother Day.  On Sunday, she puts two cards on my bed before I wake up on that day. Wanna to surprise me. Haha

From 6 Years Old Siao Qing

Kiki told me everything about the flower and card she made for me. She also said the chocolate / candy inside the flower is for me only. She brought back the flower Two days before mother day, at the time I back from work, that chocolate already in her stomack, I no chance to see how it look like at all. Anyway, she give me the flower without chocolate very happily.

From 4 Years Old Siao Qi

One night, SQkiki and I back to apartment early than Fatty.  I am playing online game in the study room while SQkiki watching TV in living. Suddenly, I heard key sound and already know Fatty is back liao. So, I quickly ran walk to bedroom and folding clothes there.

Then, Fatty went into house and I heard he asks SQKiki where I am.

SQ answer : ” mama just know at study room playing computer. When  you come back she ran to bedroom already ler. She scare you scold her..”

msau : “#*&$(%#@(*%&)$!”

SQ throw tantrum after she refused to eat breakfast. All because the breakfast was not what she wants. She told me the bread is not tasty, so does not want to eat. Wahsey..so picky ah.. bread with cream bought in King’s also said no tasty does not want ot eat. I insist she should eat even she does not like the bread. Anyway, she refused. So I just told her up to her, no tasty then no need to eat lor.. I have no other breakfast for her already. Then she started to throw tantrum liao lor…

I have no time to calm her down because have to take bath and go to work. So, just let Fatty deal with her lor.. So..This is what SQ gets after refused to go to school and keep thraw tantrum :p

By Fatty to Siao Qing at the early morning.

I wasn’t know about this until SQ showed me after I back from work. She knows she is wrong, so she shows her mark to me with smiling and paiseh face. haii

p/s :  Sorry for whom does not agree to use rattan on kids. We are not abuse,  打在她身上,痛在我心里. haii

I done a practice for next year schedule today.

6.00am – wake up

6.25am – walk to car park

6.30am – departure from apartment

Sky still very dark at 6.30am but I already saw quite many people wake up and starting their day already. I though there should be lesser car on the road since still very early mah.. manatahu I quite shocked after saw cars at Seremban Highway to KL direction. Wahsey..sooo many cars at the time of 6.40am! Although not jam until cannot move but also many until you have to slow down lor.. :S

I am quite worry to saw traffic like this ler.. which mean me either have to pay toll drive into town from another way or wake much early so that wouldn’t be late to send SQ to school. However, quite relief after I drove into airport road, KL area is not jam in the early morning. Traffic not smooth is starting from Seremban Highway Seri Petaling junction troughout junction to Petaling Jaya only. ya…also sikit jam at end of airport road to Jalan Istana, anyway that does not block my way to city center.

7.15am – Already arrived Jalan Sultan Ismail.

I supposed make a turn at Jalan Raja Chulan and arrived school within another 5 – 10 mins time. But.. me.. a lady has bad direction tak tahu how cannot find the Jalan Raja Chulan and drove until Jalan Tun Razak and go “swim car river” to KLCC, Citibank and then back to Sungai Wang for half hour! OK lah.. Fatty rescued me d lah.. After I made a call to him then baru found the way to school again. *sigh*

Finally I completed my practice and get below time as record.

1. House to car park – 5 mins
2. Apartment to school in morning  – 45 mins (not so traffic jam)
3. school to my office – 10 mins

Very surprise it only took 10  mins from the school to my office. Now, I have to think a better way to negotiate with boss to reschedule my working hour next year. Well, think this year end baru discuss with her lah.. Now also don’t know how to cakap.

Here is some of the SQ’s future school photo. Very Small school :p

I have forget when was the last time I am having romantic dinner with Fatty already. Hmm.. maybe since Sqkiki arrived? haha.. tak tahu lah..But last weekend he gave me a surprise lor..He called me and ask me out for dating wor.. haha

Oh ya..kids sent to their grandmother because we have to wake up early for tomorrow Ching Ming. So, we could have candle dinner at Jalan Ampang peacefully. We went to Victoria Station Restaurant.

Frankly, I do not like the restaurant environment. Those tables and chairs arrangement made the restaurant looks narrow. Not nice.. mahu romantic sikit pun feel like kena staring by people. :p

Food taste good, especially their salad. Very yummy.

This one is “potong” Fatty one..

SQ having short-sightedness since mid of last year, I already bought the glasses for her but she refused to bring it to school no matter how I forced her. I told her to wear glasses when want to copy words from white board. But she always told me she sat at front and teacher wrote very big words, so she can see and does not want to wear lor.

But now, finally SQ willing to wear glasses daily already. ALL BECAUSE OF teacher advice her to do so!! haii..
I told her teacher she actually has Short-sightedness in parent day, so teacher mai advice her to wear lor.. Then, she really wear glasses day and night liao wor…

Apalah… Really apa also teacher cakap is better. Mother cakap is wind.

5.45am/6.00am – wake up

6.15am/6.30am – departure from home Send SQ to school (Driving 30mins – 75 mins)

7.15am – Drive to office (Driving 20mins – 40 mins)

7.30am/8.00am – start to work (If possible, if not balik rumah)

3.00pm – leave office/home, drive to KL most traffic jam area and pick SQ back.  Go (Driving 20mins – 60 mins) & balik (Driving 45mins – 60 mins)

5.00pm – Back to home & continue other all must do have to do need to do works….

9.00pm – Sleep so that could wake up at 5.45am next morning

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I am keep thinking and ask myself, could I follow above schedule everyday.

我可以牺牲自己的时间吗？可以坚持这么早起，这么早睡吗？可以忍受这么塞车的驾驶环境吗？

最重要的是，在這樣的時間表下，我還可以不脾氣爆躁，還會有耐心嘛？

我最怕的就是我会迁怒，把我的累和不满发泄在老公和孩子的身上。如何是好？

Another way is let SQ in a school that I “think” is not suitable and might make her less interest in study. So? How?

At age of 5 and  9 months old, SQ finally starting to know about “demand” and “complaint”.

Before this she would not ask me to bring her anywhere or buy her anything. Yes, she might consider late to discover demand and complaint liao,  I purposely train her kamah…ok lah..is me 霸道 lah… I usually would inform them at last minutes before bring them to anywhere.. My only way to avoid SQ’s insomnia case happen again.

Now SQ would asks me to bring her go picnic, go beach, go playground. Shw would said “mama, you long time no bring us go picnic lor.. cepat call aunty and go picnic together lah..” then eeoo eeoo eeoo again…..

She also would complaints me no bring her go, no buy thing she wants for her and no give her eat! Wahsey.. now so panai demand and complaint liao ler.. sakit kepala… But still not when I heard this:

I ask her to clean up the toys they play, then she said : “who ask you buy so many to me? I no ask you buy mah.. now want me to clean them”

Manyak kek sam lah… 买又不是,不买又不是…then how?

SQ : “mama, you give me a brother lah.. I want to marry him”

msaufong : “cannot lah.. you cannot marry your own brother one”

SQ : “cannot meh? then how I marry?”

msaufong : “you go find your own husband lah..”

SQ : “I don’t know how to find lah.. I cannot get one”

msaufong : “cannot get mai no need marry lor”

SQ : “cannot lah.. I want marry lah…”

msaufong : “aiyah…why must want husband lah… no need marry also never mind one mah…”

SQ : “I want to have a baby lah!”

msaufong  o_O” …… good that she knows after married baru can have baby.

筱晴在大年初一给我的红包！她告诉我里面并不是钱因为她没有钱给我，于是就画了这张图画给我。还在小人物的口中说出 “I Love Mummy” ” I Love Daddy”.

我 – 融化了。