SQ在家做的立体故事，描述着SQ 和 同学在操场上玩 123木头人。苏老师拿着哨子站在一旁，魏老师就坐在一边看他们。

有时候真的好喜欢她的创意。。可能不及其他小孩的特别。。可是对我来说确实满惊喜的。。。*开心*

在我无意的引导之下， SQ 开始会圆谎了。我不知道是我引导得太好还是我问得太仔细，令到SQ 也不知不觉中圆谎。

学校要求学生不要带私人物品到学校，以防弄不见。当然除了水壶，书包及功课外。他们不需要带任何文具因学校会提供。

有一天，在我不知情的情况下，SQ 带了一个装满颜色笔的铅笔盒去学校。然后，一个同学拿了她的铅笔盒回家。

后来我知道后，就吩咐SQ 要向同学拿回来或告诉老师，一定要把铅笔盒拿回来。 这事情就这样拖了一两个星期。问了她几次后，我总忍不住在她的联络簿子里向老师写了个情况，让 SQ 拿去给老师看，看老师帮不帮到她。我这样做主要是想让 SQ 自己解决她的事情。让她去面对老师和同学，自己去解决问题

可是几天后，SQ还是没有拿回那个铅笔盒。所以我就开始了那个 “引导”

妈妈 ： “那天妈妈写了那篇东西，叫你拿给老师看。 老师看了吗？”

SQ 没有出声

妈妈 ： “怎样？你有拿给老师看吗？”

SQ 没有出声，不过却轻轻的点点头。”

妈妈 ： “哦。。那么老师说什么？”

SQ ： 老师没有说什么？”

妈妈 ： “没有说什么？老师怎么会没有说什么？她有问那个同学又没有拿你的铅笔盒吗？”

SQ 还是没有出声，但后来又轻轻的点点头。”

妈妈 ： “那么那个同学有说什么吗？”

SQ 还是没有出声。

妈妈 ： “老师问了那个同学后，她有没有说什么吗？”

SQ ： “他说7岁的时候才给回我。”

妈妈 ： “那么老师后来有说什么吗？”

SQ ： “没有。”

妈妈 ： “怎么会没有？老师没有叫同学拿回来给你吗？”

SQ ： “没有。”

妈妈 ： “你是真的有拿给老师看吗？老师在看后怎么会没做什么？”

SQ ： “有，有拿给老师看。”

。。。。。。。。

我已经怀疑SQ 没有拿给老师看，可是她却一直说有。两天后，终于嗡到她说她并没有拿个老师看，因为怕老师骂。老师曾因小朋友带私人文具到学校而责怪他们。

如果我不问这么多，可能SQ 不会被引导到圆谎。可是，不是有人说不擅长表达的小孩需要被引导吗？

是我的引导能力太差，还是我用错了方法？ hmm…

这其实并不是什么特别事情，我只想写下这一刻罢了。

SQ told me she have two Mother Day cards to me. They already done in the class. But she will keep all cards secretly. She said would only give me on The Mother Day.  On Sunday, she puts two cards on my bed before I wake up on that day. Wanna to surprise me. Haha

From 6 Years Old Siao Qing

Kiki told me everything about the flower and card she made for me. She also said the chocolate / candy inside the flower is for me only. She brought back the flower Two days before mother day, at the time I back from work, that chocolate already in her stomack, I no chance to see how it look like at all. Anyway, she give me the flower without chocolate very happily.

From 4 Years Old Siao Qi

SQ throw tantrum after she refused to eat breakfast. All because the breakfast was not what she wants. She told me the bread is not tasty, so does not want to eat. Wahsey..so picky ah.. bread with cream bought in King’s also said no tasty does not want ot eat. I insist she should eat even she does not like the bread. Anyway, she refused. So I just told her up to her, no tasty then no need to eat lor.. I have no other breakfast for her already. Then she started to throw tantrum liao lor…

I have no time to calm her down because have to take bath and go to work. So, just let Fatty deal with her lor.. So..This is what SQ gets after refused to go to school and keep thraw tantrum :p

By Fatty to Siao Qing at the early morning.

I wasn’t know about this until SQ showed me after I back from work. She knows she is wrong, so she shows her mark to me with smiling and paiseh face. haii

p/s :  Sorry for whom does not agree to use rattan on kids. We are not abuse,  打在她身上,痛在我心里. haii

I done a practice for next year schedule today.

6.00am – wake up

6.25am – walk to car park

6.30am – departure from apartment

Sky still very dark at 6.30am but I already saw quite many people wake up and starting their day already. I though there should be lesser car on the road since still very early mah.. manatahu I quite shocked after saw cars at Seremban Highway to KL direction. Wahsey..sooo many cars at the time of 6.40am! Although not jam until cannot move but also many until you have to slow down lor.. :S

I am quite worry to saw traffic like this ler.. which mean me either have to pay toll drive into town from another way or wake much early so that wouldn’t be late to send SQ to school. However, quite relief after I drove into airport road, KL area is not jam in the early morning. Traffic not smooth is starting from Seremban Highway Seri Petaling junction troughout junction to Petaling Jaya only. ya…also sikit jam at end of airport road to Jalan Istana, anyway that does not block my way to city center.

7.15am – Already arrived Jalan Sultan Ismail.

I supposed make a turn at Jalan Raja Chulan and arrived school within another 5 – 10 mins time. But.. me.. a lady has bad direction tak tahu how cannot find the Jalan Raja Chulan and drove until Jalan Tun Razak and go “swim car river” to KLCC, Citibank and then back to Sungai Wang for half hour! OK lah.. Fatty rescued me d lah.. After I made a call to him then baru found the way to school again. *sigh*

Finally I completed my practice and get below time as record.

1. House to car park – 5 mins
2. Apartment to school in morning  – 45 mins (not so traffic jam)
3. school to my office – 10 mins

Very surprise it only took 10  mins from the school to my office. Now, I have to think a better way to negotiate with boss to reschedule my working hour next year. Well, think this year end baru discuss with her lah.. Now also don’t know how to cakap.

Here is some of the SQ’s future school photo. Very Small school :p

5.45am/6.00am – wake up

6.15am/6.30am – departure from home Send SQ to school (Driving 30mins – 75 mins)

7.15am – Drive to office (Driving 20mins – 40 mins)

7.30am/8.00am – start to work (If possible, if not balik rumah)

3.00pm – leave office/home, drive to KL most traffic jam area and pick SQ back.  Go (Driving 20mins – 60 mins) & balik (Driving 45mins – 60 mins)

5.00pm – Back to home & continue other all must do have to do need to do works….

9.00pm – Sleep so that could wake up at 5.45am next morning

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I am keep thinking and ask myself, could I follow above schedule everyday.

我可以牺牲自己的时间吗？可以坚持这么早起，这么早睡吗？可以忍受这么塞车的驾驶环境吗？

最重要的是，在這樣的時間表下，我還可以不脾氣爆躁，還會有耐心嘛？

我最怕的就是我会迁怒，把我的累和不满发泄在老公和孩子的身上。如何是好？

Another way is let SQ in a school that I “think” is not suitable and might make her less interest in study. So? How?

Besides at home, I finally found a place that suitable for a small gathering with friend and kids. We have food there plus entertainment for 3 hours 11am – 2pm! haha

We went to Karaoke last week. Previously I thought Karaoke is not suitable for kids but I know am wrong now.We have buffet lunch at RM16.00 ++ per person. FOC for kids below 4 feets. So, SQ and Kiki is still free! We total 2 adults + 4 kids only paid RM52.80 for 3 hours Karaoke in room + food!  The best is we could locked all the kids in room without worry they run away.   Great Deals!

The kids enjoy singing kid’s song such as ABC, BlaBla Black Sheep, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, Two tigers, Raw Raw Raw Your Boat and many other songs. And we adults could have some chat plus sing also. nice gathering.

Height :
SQ @ 5 years & 4 months old = 118cm
Kiki @ 3 years & 7 months old = 108 cm

Update on 22.10.2009

• Neway – FOC for children below 4 feets
• GreenBox – FOC for children below 140cm
• Red Box – FOC for children below 120cm

continued from last post.

Sunday – fever drop and come back once a while

Monday – SQ no more fever. I received sms from Kindy, a 6 year old kid H1N1 infected. School closed starting Tuesday.

Tuesday :
Morning – I received another sms in the morning another 3 student from 5 years old and 6 years old class H1N1 infected.
Afternoon – my mother calls SQ cough getting worst. damn worry and rush back to home bring her to Hospital Serdang for the H1N1 test. Hospital does not want to test for SQ even I already told them she has fever last two day, coughing is getting worst and kindy got student infected already. They just give medicine and ask to take medicine for “testing” the sickness, see could cure or not.
Night – SQ cough at night and make her couldn’t sleep well, lucky half hour later she dropped off and no more cough while sleeping.

Wednesday:
Bring her to Gleneagles Intan Paed clinic to check. Lung-X ray show good results but doctor still recommend the rapid influenza test which has accurate percentage of 95%.

Result show positive on Influenza A Virus.

SQ Condition in the clinic – no fever + a little coughing + active like monkey
Medical Treatment – on 7 days Tamiflu + Fever Medicine + Cough Medicine + Zithromaz (Another antibiotic)

Thursday :
To play safe I bring Kiki for the Influenza test also since she already started fever ar Tuesday night. Influenza Test result show negative but doctor advice to take Tamiflu also.

Kiki’s condition : 2 days fever + no cough + no sore throat + active like monkey as well.
Medical Treatment – on 5 days Tamiflu + fever medicine + cough medicine

On Tamiflu
SQ & Kiki sharing the same Tamiflu now.

1 capsule mixed well with 5 ml water, then take out the ml needed and mix with 5ml syrup. Taking at morning and night. So ngam SQ has to take 3 ml and Kiki take 2ml. So they could share the same medicine and help me save some money.

Friday update on SQ and Kiki.
Both of them doing good now. no fever, no cough, no sore throat. They are active and just like nothing happen before, however they have to complete the antibiotic treatment also. And I will temporary being stay at home mother and home quarantine with them. Don’t know when can go back to work yet as my boss not allow me to enter office!

Oh ya..til now still not confirm SQ is AH1N1 infected or not (But confirmed is Influenza A)  since the result from gomen not yet back. Don’t know the result will be back at when ler…

The illness is probably not serious if your child:

• is still interested in playing
• is eating and drinking well
• is alert and smiling at you
• has a normal skin color
• looks well when his or her temperature comes down

Found above at a kid healthy website. Although I have read many articles about kid’s fever but when it happen I will just become siao.

SQ having high fever at Thursday midnight. Temperature shoot up to 40.3degree but lagi manage to drop to 38 in the early morning after took bath and mop body for few hours. Then seem ok at day time…

Friday night she having high fever again.

7pm – (39.9degree) and took medicine in the clinic then temperature drop to 38.5 degree.
12am – feed medicine
1am – 40.7 degree
1am – 3am – bath, sponge and sleep under fan
3am – still 39.6 – 39.8 degree.
3.30am – beh tahan rush to hospital
4.00am – 39.8 degree (Hospital doctor give stronger fever medicine and antibiotic then ask us back!)
5.00am – feed stronger medicine
7.00am – 39.6 degree
9.30am – 38degree

Macam nothing I can do but just monitor SQ’s temperature now. Today is third day of fever liao…Hope she would be ok by today..else……

Suddenly I feel like want to write down the different of SQ and Kiki again, so I back to my blog and dig out the old post of SQ vs Kiki that posted at 22 May 2006.

Below comparison beat me alot. SQ and Kiki act the same with 3 years ago (When SQ is 2 years old and Kiki is newborn) ! isn’t this really call 3岁定80 （3 sui ding 80) ？

• SQ play alone when awake
  Kiki don’t wan to play alone when awake

SQ still will play alone or watch TV alone, she wouldn’t disturb me if know I am busying.
Kiki don’t want to play alone, she will just disturb me or whoever at home to play with her.

• SQ ignore ppl who carry & talk to her (Eyes look other place)
  Kiki alway look for ppl carry & talk to her (Kiki will respond with ‘ang-ku’ ‘ang-ku’)

SQ does not like to talk to stranger, she ignore them..Not sure is too shy or what…opps..should be all the people except own family members.
Kiki alway look for people to talk, her voice volume is high and loud, could be hear everywhere. She also always trying the best to attract people, no matter she knows them or not.