Apr
22
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on April-22-2011

I almost forgot to update SQ’s shake head status until Tracy msg me. :p

I brought SQ to the child specialist that night. Doctor done some detail check up on her because she saw SQ shake head too. Doctor checked all her bone joint, knock knock here and there. Then requested SQ follow her intruction to walk, such as walk with toes lah..with right and left side of feet lah..with one eyes close lah…with hand up & etcs..

After all those testing, doctor said she only found SQ has a little problem at one walking style – not stable while walking. Doctor suggested us bring SQ to Paed Neurologist (Gleneagles Intan, Dr Ng) for further check up.

Called the Paed Clinic on the next day but only manage slot int the appointment 3 weeks after. Siao busy meh that Paed. No choice lah…gotta wait also lor..

But….cakap you also wouldn’t believe it. I notice that SQ no longer shake head that often after back from Clinic. I have not bring her to Paed Neurologist yet ler.. I asked SQ why, she told me she trying hard to make her head no shake then can stop shake lor…O.O’

Well, I tried ask her to control previously but she said can’t but then now tells me can control pula. I still have no idea what make her shake head. Paed Neurologist’s appointment cancelled coz I don’t know ask Paed check what d….

SQ’s Shaking head problem finally fully solved at the end of March. She no longer shake head continously like three months.  Also no more keep adjusting her pupils.



 
Mar
31
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on March-31-2011

I Love You Card drawn by SQ. Currently stick on my CPU. I am happy to see her drawn a happy family in a good sunny day. I hope she would keeps this happy feeling forever.



 
Mar
14
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on March-14-2011

SQ is shaking head since Jan 2011. At first, I thought is her hair problem so I tied her hair every day, but problem still exist and now is getting worst. Besides that, she also often “opens” her eyes big big like adjusting the pupils. She notice what she doing but she can’t stop herself doing it. Hai….previously was keep blink eyes now keep shake head pula…Pening lor me…

I hope she is not having the Tourette Syndrome as what I read online. Will bring her to visit child specialist tonight. Not sure is useful or not but get some advise from doctor is much better than playing guessing game.



 
Jan
13
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on January-13-2011

Upper front teeth drop at the right time! The new front teeth already pop out lor.. Now second front teeth is loose too. I have to remind SQ shake it often so that it would drop before new teeth pop out.

So far, I am very happy with SQ’s teeth as so far only 1 decay teeth and filled. Hmm.. Kiki never been to dental check up yet. hmm.. I think is time to bring two of them for another check up d.. Dental said molars will serve them until 12 years old ler, so I better make sure they are in good conditions. I am scare to bring kids to extract teeth.



 
Jan
10
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on January-10-2011

SQ used to the school very fast. She requests me drop her at the entrance on the third daddy and told me her teacher said parent could accompany them in school for one week only, and then all students have to come to the class by themselves. If I want to send SQ to class, I have to ask her permission now. Wahsey… So big face ah. I hope she is going to the school with this happy and proud feeling forever.

Wrote their Chinese name and all published on the board at back.

Currently, SQ still does not have to carry heavy school bag as all her books are keep in school cabinet. Not sure teacher will help them keep the text book in future or not, but I hope they will. So that SQ no need to carry a heavy bag to and back from school lor.

1S Class photo. 11 students and their class’s teacher.. someone commentted Mulan looks like the picture on wall wor.  Sorry teacher, that Mulan head too real liao..

One day early morning, I saw whole school students bring out a plastic stool and queue at outside of the classes. Very cute Oh… Guess what are they doing with the plastic stool? Of course is sit on it lah (this is how SQ answer me :p) they are heading to the hall for assembly! Wah so good ah.. Got stool to sit while assembly ah… I only remember the experience of stand under big sun until pening saja…

p/s : this school is having Preschool for kids aged 5 and 6 too.. go CP’s blog if you want to know more.



 
Dec
29
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on December-29-2010

We arrived much early than the Orientation today. The way drive to school was not jam at all, maybe because school day is not start yet. Reached SQ’s Primary School at 7.15am! 45 mins early…Besides the school cleaner and guide, we are the only people there. :p

SQ looks very excited so did her mother. Two of us could not sleep well and keep peeping the clock. SQ scare she late to school and I don’t know what make me could not sleep too…:lol:

Back to the school… Standard  1 has only 1 class and only 12 + 1 students. the “1″ student would joint after 1 week only due to don’t know what transfer process. Only 8 students in the class today, super duper mini oh.. I don’t know should happy or not coz that is the main reason I put SQ into this school. :p But another way, quite worry the school could not stand long with so little students.

SQ looks very happy in the school, she runs and discover the school all by herself before other parents and students arrived. I just sit at outside and wait her to report where got this and where got that.. I believe she 101% could survive without me kelah..She is a shy girl but also a brave girl.



 
Sep
17
    
Posted (admin) in Kiki Stuff, Siao Qing Stuff on September-17-2010

Their new hobby! Everytime back to apartment they will pick these grass and take home to “plant” in their own “vase”.



 
Aug
26
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on August-26-2010

Time flies lor… SQ’s first adult front teeth finally can’t wait liao.. Popping out liao.. SQ baby front teeth has not drop yet but already loose liao.. I keep remind SQ to shake that baby teeth so that new teeth has more room. I hope she could remove her baby teeth without pain..have to remind her more often now! haha



 
Aug
15
    
Posted (admin) in Siao Qing Stuff on August-15-2010

I wanted to bring SQ for her first dental check up last month. But my dental appointment is so full, I only managed to get an appointment for a month later only. Well better than nothing as I do not want to bring SQ to other dental that might scared her. I want to give a nice dental experience to SQ to avoid her fear of dental in future.

I made two appointments for SQ and me. I think is good to show SQ her mother not scare of dental too. haha..So I go to clean teeth and check up together. SQ very curious when dental cleaning my teeth. I saw she peeping here and there. Then even go beside me look into my mouth to see what dental done to me. So funny to see her like that.

The dental is very talkative and friendly too. So SQ does not scare at all. She climb to the seat herself and follow dental instruction only. Lucky I brought SQ to do check up else I would not know there is a cavity in one of her molar. Have a cavity filled for her surely not as pain as toothache or 拔牙。SQ is brave too, she does not scare and worry at all. Proud of her! haha

This is SQ first dental visit at aged of 6 years 3 months old.

p/s : dental said the best time to bring kid visit dental is 4 years old wor.. Just normal visit that let her know about dental without fear.



 
Aug
04
    
Posted (admin) in Parenting, Siao Qing Stuff on August-4-2010

在我无意的引导之下, SQ 开始会圆谎了。我不知道是我引导得太好还是我问得太仔细,令到SQ 也不知不觉中圆谎。

学校要求学生不要带私人物品到学校,以防弄不见。当然除了水壶,书包及功课外。他们不需要带任何文具因学校会提供。

有一天,在我不知情的情况下,SQ 带了一个装满颜色笔的铅笔盒去学校。然后,一个同学拿了她的铅笔盒回家。

后来我知道后,就吩咐SQ 要向同学拿回来或告诉老师,一定要把铅笔盒拿回来。 这事情就这样拖了一两个星期。问了她几次后,我总忍不住在她的联络簿子里向老师写了个情况,让 SQ 拿去给老师看,看老师帮不帮到她。我这样做主要是想让 SQ 自己解决她的事情。让她去面对老师和同学,自己去解决问题

可是几天后,SQ还是没有拿回那个铅笔盒。所以我就开始了那个 “引导”

妈妈 : “那天妈妈写了那篇东西,叫你拿给老师看。 老师看了吗?”

SQ 没有出声

妈妈 : “怎样?你有拿给老师看吗?”

SQ 没有出声,不过却轻轻的点点头。”

妈妈 : “哦。。那么老师说什么?”

SQ : 老师没有说什么?”

妈妈 : “没有说什么?老师怎么会没有说什么?她有问那个同学又没有拿你的铅笔盒吗?”

SQ 还是没有出声,但后来又轻轻的点点头。”

妈妈 : “那么那个同学有说什么吗?”

SQ 还是没有出声。

妈妈 : “老师问了那个同学后,她有没有说什么吗?”

SQ : “他说7岁的时候才给回我。”

妈妈 : “那么老师后来有说什么吗?”

SQ : “没有。”

妈妈 : “怎么会没有?老师没有叫同学拿回来给你吗?”

SQ : “没有。”

妈妈 : “你是真的有拿给老师看吗?老师在看后怎么会没做什么?”

SQ : “有,有拿给老师看。”

。。。。。。。。

我已经怀疑SQ 没有拿给老师看,可是她却一直说有。两天后,终于嗡到她说她并没有拿个老师看,因为怕老师骂。老师曾因小朋友带私人文具到学校而责怪他们。

如果我不问这么多,可能SQ 不会被引导到圆谎。可是,不是有人说不擅长表达的小孩需要被引导吗?

是我的引导能力太差,还是我用错了方法? hmm…

这其实并不是什么特别事情,我只想写下这一刻罢了。